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Author: Jeff Kennon

I am the director of the Baptist Student Ministries at Texas Tech University. I am married to Paige, and have three children, Krista, Justin, and Josh.

Some Questions About Prayer

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Prayer is so simple. It’s talking to God. You don’t need to use religious jargon. Nor do you have to put on a “holy vibe,” whatever that means. You just come as you are.

Prayer is also listening. I don’t think we always think about the listening part of prayer. Yet it’s an important element. We must not leave it out of our prayer life.

But though prayer is so simple, or at least in some ways, I still have some questions about it. And so for the next few weeks, I want to address some of those questions. Some of them may seem to have an obvious answer, but we do well to still ask them for many times, it’s in the asking of questions that new discoveries are made. Now some of the questions may not have an answer, or at least not a clear one that I can give, but that’s ok. We still need to ask.

To start off, I have a rather elementary, but perhaps complex question. Here it is: “Does anything happen when we pray?” The answer has to be “Yes!” does it not? Why do we pray if it doesn’t make a difference? And yet I think we have all faced times in which we wondered if God was listening. We have all thought that perhaps God has not answered some request we have offered up.

The Bible is clear however, that God hears our prayers. In fact, he invites us to “ask, seek, and knock” (see Luke 11:9). And when we do, he promises to answer. Or at least when you continue reading Luke 11 that’s what Jesus seems to be saying. So this is good news. God hears. He doesn’t turn a deaf ear to us. He is present.

But once again, I know we have all had experiences where we sometimes doubt that God is really present and listening to us. I hope you realize that you are in good company when you feel this way. Just read through the Psalms. Many times they offer a plea of “God, where are you? Are you listening?” Or read the biographies of those in whom we classify as the “great saints” of the past. As you do, you will discover that they too had times of doubt as to what God was doing in their lives.

The older I get the more I resonate with the statement that “there are no simple answers.” I feel this way about the question of whether prayer makes a difference. And yet I simply do believe that prayer in fact does change things. Scripture along with all of history is clear about the “power” of prayer. But if we are honest, we all have times of doubt.

A couple of years ago I read Peter Enns book entitled The Sin of Certainty: Why God Desires Our Trust More Than Our “Correct” Beliefs. Reading this book stirred in me my insatiable desire to have all my Biblical and theological “ducks in a row.” And by the way, this is not always a good thing. Why? Because in doing so, intimacy with God sometimes gets misplaced.

What Enns book leads me to think in dealing with the question of “does prayer change anything?” is that the simple answer of “Yes!” may just be enough. The clarity of Jesus when he tell his disciples, “If you remain in me and my words remain in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be done for you” (John 15:7) should be trusted. This doesn’t mean that I shouldn’t seek answers to my questions concerning prayer. But what it does mean is that at the end of the day, when the answers don’t seem complete (or correct) enough, I bow my head and seek the face of God.

There is quite a bit left unanswered in this short essay concerning this question about prayer. For example, how does God’s sovereignty work in relation to our praying? Perhaps more can be written later about this. But for now, the point is to trust that prayer effects change. I don’t always see it, but it could be that my vision is a bit cloudy. So I keep trusting. I keep praying. For what else shall I do? It is God who is my creator, salvation, sustainer, rock, and hope and it is to him in which I turn.

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How Has God Been Portrayed To You?

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How has God been portrayed to you? In other words, when you think of God, what image comes to mind?

Kind? Overbearing? Compassionate? Mad? Wrathful? Angry? Loving? Graceful? Holy? Disgusted? Merciful? Judgmental? Aloof? Frightening?

Not long ago I was talking with a young man and the subject of Christianity came up. I asked him, “What do you think about it?” “It scares me!” he said. Now I didn’t dive into his past by asking him why he felt this way as it became apparent that he really didn’t want to converse any longer about his personal views, but I wonder what made him think the way he did? And then I began to think, “How many more have misconceptions about God? And why?”

While reading the Bible with a young man we came across the somewhat familiar story of Jesus and the Samaritan Woman (John 4). Jesus hanging out and talking with such a woman was considered taboo yet here is Jesus, doing what Jesus does. When we finished with the story, I asked: “So what do you think?” “Jesus appears much different in this story than how I grew up imagining him,” he responded. Again, how many people have misconceptions about God? And why?

Not to be overly simplistic here, but I wonder if one of the reasons some seem to have a faulty image of God is because those of us who claim to follow him are not reflecting him as he really is? We preach God is full of grace, but are we? We say God loves the world so much that he gave, but do we?

I know the adage is that no one is perfect and that we are all sinners, and yet somehow that excuse has come to not have much merit for me. I do agree that we are not always loving and graceful to others, but instead of just saying, “Well…no one’s perfect,” let’s humble ourselves and own up to our frailties that cause hurt and pain to others and by God’s grace pursue the heart and mind of Christ.

Well, I think I have rambled a bit too much here. Hopefully there is something here that made you think. But before I sign off on this post, I want to to ask you again, “What image comes to mind when you think of God?” You may not see God as always kind and loving. If so, I understand. But what I encourage you to do, what I encourage all of us to do, is to pick up Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John. They will enlighten us as to the image of God as it is found in none other than Jesus himself. And as it does, it will reveal who we are to become as well.

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Beginning Again, Again!

Yes, it’s been a while since I’ve written anything…or at least anything on this site. Now I could blame it on COVID, the election, or the fact that I now have two dogs. And yes, I’ve been busy with the daily routines of work and family. But if the truth be told, and I think it should, I really don’t have a good excuse. But regardless, I’m giving it a go at trying to get back at writing and posting some content on this site. Hope some of you will follow along.

As I begin again (of which I have already done so once), I hope to accomplish a couple of things. First, my goal is to post/publish something once a week. Yes! Just once a week. Could there be weeks where I post more? Possibly. But if it happens, don’t get to excited. Probably won’t be a regular thing.

Second, I’m going to try to make it short! I’ve always been intrigued by Seth Godin’s Blog. His posts are extremely concise. In fact, his post just a few days ago was only 56 words. I’m not sure I can order breakfast at Chik-fil-A with just 56 words. But nonetheless, I hope to be somewhat succinct with each weeks writing. We will see how it goes!

As I end this time of confession and somewhat renewed commitment, I was reminded of the difficulty for some (me included) to remain disciplined. Being the start of a new year, many probably set a goal to read the Bible through in 2021 and are already 2 weeks behind. Others may have decided that this year they were going to finally keep up with a prayer list and yet they have not written one name down yet.

So what if you are one of these folks? My advice? Pick up the Bible and start reading. Get a notebook on the way home and write a couple of prayer requests. Yes, you may be behind on reading the Bible in a year. So what! If it takes you an extra 5 months, what does it matter? And yes, you wanted to have more than a couple of prayer requests listed by this time of the year. The good thing is that you have begun.

So I guess my encouragement is this: It’s really okay to begin again, again. If not, then there’s no sense in me to keep writing!

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Bless The World, O My Soul!

I believe that we as Christ-followers need to bless the world with everything we have! And what I mean by that is we must people who “bestow good of any kind.” Now I don’t think this is earth shattering news to us. But what I wonder is, are we doing it? Are we people who are gracious, kind, loving, joyful, patient, generous and caring?

Years ago, I was visiting with a college student (not hard for me since I work with them) who was telling me how wait staff at restaurants hate Sundays. Since he was a waiter himself, I asked him why? He said, “It’s because the tips are the worst and the customers are the rudest!” And by the way, I’m not talking about some restaurant in some pagan part of the world. I’m talking about Bible-belt Texas where most of the customers are those who just left Sunday morning worship. Now true, it could have just been this one restaurant in this one town, but regardless, this should not be! Sunday lunch should be the time when every waiter and waitress want to work because the tips are so great and because the times with the customers are so encouraging.

Jesus told us that we are the “salt of the earth” and the “light of the world” (Matthew 5:13-14). I know there are a lot of meanings attached with these metaphors, but I believe that “doing good to others” is involved. How do we show the world the goodness of our God? Is it not by us blessing the lives of others? Does not “loving our neighbor as ourself” (Matthew 22:39) show those around us that God is a God of love?

I believe that if we are going to “make disciples of all nations,” we are going to have to be a people who bless others. For as we “do good” to those around us, we make the Christian life desirable. Madeleine L’Engle writes, “We draw people to Christ not by loudly discrediting what they believe, by telling them how wrong they are, but by showing them a light that is so lovely that they want with all their hearts to know the source of it.”

We must be the ones whose manners at the check out line and whose attitude during a lengthy wait at the drive-thru exhibit an unhurried kindness. Our lives must be lived for the “flourishing” of others, not personal gain. The quote “leave everything better than you found it” should also apply to the people we encounter as well. For as we do, we show the world the truth about the God we worship and the beauty of a life who follows him.

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A Few Other Thoughts On “Taking Up Our Cross”

To follow Jesus involves the cross. I wrote a bit about this last week (though by no means did I exhaust the topic). In that discussion, I leaned toward understanding “taking up one’s cross” as pledging our allegiance to Christ. It is breaking ties with the systems of this world, specifically its power structures, and following Jesus and the ways of his kingdom.

As a result of this separation from the powers that be, conflict will ensue. The world will, in some sense, crucify you. In the Roman world, to take up your cross meant that you went against Rome. This is why you were being executed and why you would lose everything. Those condemned to death by crucifixion forfeited their estates and were even denied burial. So when Jesus is telling his disciples, and us, to take up our cross, he is saying that to go against the world could most likely result in suffering.

Once again, it must be mentioned that we don’t seek suffering. We seek Jesus! But we shouldn’t be surprised when suffering comes. In fact, Peter writes that we need to be prepared for it (1 Peter 4:1). Nor should we view suffering negatively. One of the great paradoxes of Scripture is that we gain life by giving ours away. True joy and suffering are linked together. This is not how we are accustomed to thinking.

What I want to mention briefly in this short post however, is not so much the suffering that comes from “taking a stand” for the gospel, such as losing a job or being ridiculed for believing in Jesus (I realize these are minor things compared to some parts of our world). What I want us to grasp is that part of our suffering, if not the majority of it, is for the sake of those around us.

God’s mission is one of rescue. And his followers, who have now been rescued themselves, are now a part of this mission. In fact, Paul writes to the church in Corinth, so we are ambassadors who represent Christ. God is negotiating with you through us. We beg you as Christ’s representatives, “Be reconciled to God!” (2 Cor. 5:20).

As Christ-followers who are his ambassadors on this earth, we live for His namesake as we make him known. And how do we make him known? Well, we obviously develop conversations about the gospel with those around us. But as Christ’s representatives, we do more than just share information. We serve. We listen. We give. We sacrifice. We love. And we do so to make Christ fully known. We model the cross of which Jesus gave of himself for our sakes (see 2 Cor. 5:21) Therefore, we also give of ourselves. And we do so to those around us

So what does this look like? Well, for some of us, this means spending time listening to a colleague whom no one else in your workplace seems to care about. It could also mean that you stick with your church though many are leaving due to a few struggles over who the next pastor should be. Though there are plenty more examples like these above, I hope you notice that these are not necessarily the “big things” we often think about when we think about sacrificing and serving others. And yet what if more people lived out the so-called “smaller” sacrifices in life?

So let’s “deny ourselves, take up our cross, and follow Jesus.” For some this might mean you actually lose your life or job. For most of us however, this might just mean you lose your reputation as you begin caring for “those neighbors” in the neighborhood.

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Following Jesus Involves A Cross

When Jesus was talking to his disciples about who he was and what was going to take place during his final days in Jerusalem, Peter couldn’t understand it. “Die? Messiah? You are the victor! You’ve got this wrong.” But Jesus didn’t have it wrong. The cross awaited him. And not only did the cross await him, he told his disciples that if they were going to follow him, they would have to “deny themselves and take up their cross” as well (see Mark 8:27-38).

Following Jesus involves a cross. What this means is that our allegiance is to him and him alone. And as a result, suffering by the hands of this world will ensue. In fact, Jesus actually promised it (John 16:33). And Paul told Timothy he could count on it (2 Timothy 3:12). David Garland in his commentary on 1 Corinthians reminds us that “the Christian life is not a fast track to glory, but a slow arduous path that takes one through suffering.”

Now taking up your cross doesn’t mean you seek suffering and persecution. It means that as you follow Jesus, your life is bound up in sacrificial living for the sake of God’s mission in the world. Will this sometime involve pain and heartache? Yes! Might it be dangerous? Yes! Will you be mocked? Possibly! Will some see your commitment to Jesus a bit silly and prudish? Most likely. Will the pressure to give up come knocking at your door? Definitely! But keep going! Keep following!

The funny thing about all of this is that picking up our cross and denying ourselves is really the path to life. It’s the paradoxical nature of the Christian life. You want to be great? Become a servant. You want to be first? Get in the back of the line. You want to save your life? Then give it away for what good is it to gain the whole world and yet lose your soul (Luke 9:24-26).

I’ll have to admit, this is hard for me to comprehend. I’ve been so conditioned by our “avoid pain at all costs” world that to think of life being found by sacrificing it sounds a bit ludicrous. You might feel the same. If you do, then like me, you will do well to continue to meditate upon the economy of God.

To start, just read through the Beatitudes in Matthew 5. Blessed are the poor in spirt. Blessed are those who mourn. And of course, let’s not forget the last verses: Blessed are you when others revile you and utter all kinds of evil against you falsely on my account. Rejoice and be glad, for your reward is great in heaven, for so they persecuted the prophets who were before you (Matt. 5:11-12).

Now once again, I don’t believe that we as Christ followers go looking for persecution. We are to be peacemakers, not those that stir up senseless trouble. Nor do I believe that if you are not being persecuted that you are spiritually inferior. What I think is at the heart of taking up your cross is that we as Christ-Followers must do just that…follow Christ. This might mean that you do in fact face serious difficulty and persecution. But for many of us, this means that we give our lives for others in Christian service.

Jesus, while on the cross, was being mocked by the the rulers and soldiers saying to him, “If you are the king of the Jews, then save yourself!” Even one of the criminals crucified next to him said, “Are you not the Christ? Save yourself and us!” (Luke 23:35-39). But Jesus denied himself and took up his cross. His sacrifice brought life. And that is what it means for us to follow Jesus! Save ourselves? Yes! But we do so by giving our lives away in loving our neighbor as ourselves.

Following Jesus involves a cross!!

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Fuel For The Mind

Imagine yourself in a big city in a crowd of people. What it would be like to see all the people in the crowd like Jesus does–an anonymous crowd with old ones and young ones, fat ones and thin ones, attractive ones and ugly ones–think what it would be like to love them. If our faith is true, if there is a God, and if God loves, he loves each one of those. Try to see them as loved. And then try to see them, these faces, as loved by you. What would it be like to love these people, to love these faces–the lovable faces, the kind faces, gentle, compassionate faces? That’s not so hard. But there are lots of other faces–disagreeable faces, frightening fans, frightened faces, cruel faces, closed faces.

The Remarkable Ordinary by Frederick Buechner, p. 42

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What Does Being “On Mission” Look Like?

In the book The Way of the Dragon or The Way of the Lamb, Jamin Goggin and Kyle Strobel write:

Jesus was grounded in an unhurried existence that allowed him to be present; to listen carefully and faithfully; to overflow in mercy, grace, and love; and to know his calling (and to refuse to be seduced by callings that were not his or callings not done according to his way).

We know we are to be “on mission” with God? But what does that look like? I think the quote above gives us a glimpse.

Jesus was unhurried. I don’t think this is a characteristic that describes many in our culture today. We seem to always be pressed for time with somewhere to be and something to do. Now I don’t think being unhurried means we are not diligent about our work and days. However, I do think it speaks to a way of life that takes notice of others instead of always rushing from one place to another. We must realize the greater agenda of our days.

Jesus was present. Wherever we are, we need to be all there. What’s our biggest distraction? Most likely, it’s our smart phones. Don’t miss seeing those around you because your face is glued to a screen.

Jesus listened. What is one thing people need? They need to be heard. Though we have a great message to share, we must do so within the context of listening. This requires time and patience. Maybe we should not just pray for someone in whom to share the gospel but also pray for someone in whom we can sit and listen?

Jesus overflowed with mercy, grace, and love. We need to be people with grace and love on tap. I believe we do “love people.” But we often don’t like them. In other words, we love people abstractly. However, we must love with more than just with words. It must be concrete and specific. This is where the rubber meets the road.

Jesus knew his calling. Jesus knew who he was and what he was on earth to do. Though many things could have distracted him (consider the temptations by Satan in the dessert in Matthew 4), he stayed true to the race set ahead of him. We must do the same. And we do so as we continue to keep our eyes on Jesus (Hebrews 12:1-2).

Jesus told his disciples that just as the Father had sent him, so he was sending them (John 20:21). This applies to us. His mission is now our mission. His heart is now our heart. This also means that his method of how he accomplished his mission must be ours as well.

So let’s begin living an unhurried life while being present to those around us while listening and showing love in all we do and say. And let us not get distracted about who we are and what we are called to be for the world. This is our mission!

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